I just realized that on a day like this sixty-five years ago my parents got married. That was a beginning for what would be my life. I decided I needed to honor the memory of a godly mother and at the same time pay tribute to my godly father. I talked to my stepmother to get her approval. She was my mother’s friend for many years, so she doesn’t mind.
My parents, Brita and Per Anderås, were married in Örebro, Sweden on March 31, 1945. Standing by my mother is her sister, Gull. The flower girl is my cousin Gunilla. The boy’s name is Robert, a foster child in Mom’s home.
When I came along, as an “after the War” child, we became a family. My young parents were preparing for missionary ministry in the country of Chile. I was two years old when we went there.
The family grew. Ingrid, Agneta and Pepito were born in Chile. In 1954 we returned to Sweden for a year. This picture was taken in 1955, before we returned to South America, but this time to Peru.
Seven years later we were welcomed back to our home church. That’s what the banner says, “Welcome Home.” By then the family had the latest addition, little brother Lasse, born in Peru. My parents were the first Swedish missionaries to go to Peru, and they ministered in Arequipa and Tarma, both cities in the Andes Mountains. To help pay for out schooling in an American School for missionary kids, my mother worked as house mother. In that school we learned English.
We dressed in native costumes for our missionary services. It wasn’t something we enjoyed but our audiences did. The guy with the spear is my brother Pepe that is a surgeon living in Wisconsin. The little guy has been an aviator missionary in Bolivia and is now director of a humanitarian organization based in Sweden. Us “girls” are mothers and grandmothers, and on the side one is a medical doctor, the other one is a chef and tourism guide for trips to Peru, and then there’s “Yours truly,” the blogger!
“Honor your father and your mother” is a command I know my parents have kept and they have enjoyed the promise: “that it may go well with you and that you may enjoy long life on the earth.” There are also promises of blessing for being mindful of the poor. That is something else I want to honor about my parents. There is no house to inherit, no jewelry, no prized possessions, no money in the bank. They have given everything away to help people in need. That is an inheritance I appreciate. That is a legacy that I cherish.
I don’t have words enough to thank God for the 65 years since it all started. What a privilege to have godly parents. 5 children, 19 grandchildren, and 21 great-grandchildren, that’s not bad!
My mother is not here to receive that thanks. Someone has taken her place. I talked to my step-mother yesterday to thank her for taking care of my father. She does a superb job. It’s interesting when one of your best friends becomes your step-mother. God sure works in mysterious ways!
We all leave footprints. For those of us that are parents, no heritage can be better for our children than that of a godly home. How can I ever express my thanks for the great inheritance I have? Maybe the best way is to pass it on!